Motivenational

 I f we eat too much at home, the public will eventually notice that our stomach comes out like a balloon wrapped in cloth. If we drink too much, our nose gradually turns red and becomes a warning light to others. On the other hand, if we make an effort and eat and drink less privately, the public will sooner or later notice how thin and healthy we look. Even Superman and Spiderman and Scarlet Pimpernel can not keep their heroic deeds completely secret. After a while, their boyfriend or wife and some friends discover who they are. They sooner or later end up with a small but dedicated group of fans. By doing the things that build character we build and strengthen our self-esteem, our confidence and our success." If we practice very privately for a grade in martial arts, we shine in public when grading day arrives. If we do not hustle, we fail in public or at best get confused. To tackle this issue, do your homework Doing homework usually involves keeping our promises to ourselves,...

We were having a conversation with some guys and one of the questions that I was asked was, "Tell me about confidence. What can I do to improve my confidence?" And I said, you know, everybody is asking for like a five-step process to having more confidence, right? But, to me, confidence stems from a couple of different things. I am going to talk about two different things, one of them being how to be more confident.  No matter you do, a person who's a criminal who's extremely confident, a man who's a player who's extremely confident with women, a businessman who's extremely good at what he does with business, a person who runs anything; a coach, an athlete, anybody who's extremely confident at what they do, it's not just a natural state. Yes, some people could naturally come across as more confident than others and it could be from positive reinforcement, from their families telling them how amazing they are, or a good mentor or a wife that tells t...